Let fn → f0 be a convergent sequence of rational maps, preserving critical relations, and f0 be geometrically finite with parabolic
points. It is known that for some unlucky choices of sequences fn,the Julia sets J(fn) and their Hausdorff dimensions may fail to
converge as n → ∞. Our main result here is to prove the convergence of J(fn) and H.dim J(fn) for generic sequences fn. The
same conclusion was obtained earlier, with stronger hypotheses on the sequence fn, by Bodart-Zinsmeister and then by McMullen.
We characterize those choices of fn by means of flows of appropriate polynomial vector fields (following Douady-Estrada-Sentenac).
We first prove an independent result about the (s-dimensional) length of separatrices of such flows, and then use it to estimate
tails of Poincar´e series. This, together with existing techniques,provides the desired control of conformal densities and Hausdorff
dimensions. Our method may be applied to other problems relatedto parabolic perturbations.